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Polity Q & A

Based on suggestions from our session at Leadership Institute, our team has started a new section to our newsletter to help explain the polity of the UMC. We have asked Rev. Amy Lippoldt to help answer these questions. 

Q: I’m hearing a lot about a proposed “U.S. Regional Conference.” If that passes at General Conference, won’t it let us change the Book of Discipline for our context and end the fight over LGBTQ inclusion in the United States?

A: No.

If only it were that simple! The Connectional Table has submitted legislation for the creation of a “U.S. Regional Conference.” It would meet following General Conference starting in 2024 and be a place to deal with legislation that only effects the U.S. (e.g. our pension plan). This “Regional Conference” would not replace or change Jurisdictions but be an additional layer of polity. It would also allow the U.S. delegates make contextual changes to the adaptable parts of the Book of Discipline. There is on-going work to clarify which parts of the Book of Discipline are Global and which are adaptable (see ¶101). That work will not be completed until 2024. But in current draft form the Global book of Discipline prohibits LGBTQ clergy as well as same-sex weddings in United Methodist Churches. Could that also change? Sure. But the global church seemed pretty clear in St Louis that is was not inclined to do so. This is not to say that a “U.S. Regional Conference” is a bad idea. But even it’s passing would not create a simple and clear pathway to full inclusion in the U.S.

Do you have a question for the UMC Polity Q&A? Send it to Rev. Amy Lippoldt at alippoldt@greatplainsumc.org.

Complaint Against Rev. Anna Blaedel “Resolved”

Complaint against Rev. Anna Blaedel “resolved.” – We lament for all the ways this injustice in Iowa has caused harm to Rev. Anna, their family, their students, queer clergy, and the connection. As Rev. Anna’s counsel, Rev. Tyler, says,

“If I have one thing to say to the people of this church, it may be simply this: perhaps the most insidious harm is not outright bigotry—that’s obvious—but when people call themselves friends, while being willing to compromise our lives for the sake of “church unity.” And what has that gotten us? The promise of unity has only exacerbated division, destroying the church, as it has destroyed the lives of LGBTQIA+ beloveds. And still, we who are queer have something to teach the church. We know something of liberation on the other side of fear and trembling. We know how to celebrate life and love and tenderness and delight. We know how to make feasts out of crumbs. We know good news in our bodies, in our relationships, and in our living and loving beyond dehumanizing policies and practices. Follow our lead. We have good news for the church and world. This is messy, complicated stuff, and it matters so desperately that we get it right. Because bodies and lives and souls are at stake.”

“I’m New Here” — Clergy Resources

Reconciling Ministries: This is My Story
Reconciling Ministries Network has a web-page filled with the stories of LGBTQ United Methodists.

The Reformation Project: Biblical Case
The Reformation Project has a short, ten-point summary of the arguments for full inclusion that features a short video from Matthew Vines.

Books
Matthew Vines makes the same arguments above in more detail in his book, God and the Gay Christian: the Biblical Case in Support of Same-Sex Relationships.If you finish that and want more, you might consider Changing our Mind by David P. Gushee. Be sure to look for the third edition which includes a transcript of the excellent speech, “Ending the Teaching of Contempt.” Looking for a Wesleyan perspective? Try Holy Love: A Biblical Theology for Human Sexuality by Stephen Harper.

“For the Bible Tells Me So” Documentary
One easy way to explore LGBTQ inclusion for yourself and possibly begin a discussion in your church might be with a viewing and discussion of the 2007 documentary “For the Bible Tells Me So.” The Human Rights Campaign has a free discussion guide at the link above.

Faithful and Inclusive—the Bible, Sexuality, and the United Methodist Church
A six-session, DVD-based study from the Richard and Julia Wilke Institute for Discipleship at Southwestern College.

“I’m New Here” — Laity Resources

Clip from the documentary “For the Bible Tells Me So”
Video of basics about the bible and the specific verses mentioning homosexuality

Guide to being a Straight Ally from PFLAG
Many articles and resources to support LQBT people and their families and people who work with children and youth

Gender Terminology Guide
From Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network (GLSEN)

Pronouns Resource
From GLSEN

Resources from Queer Theology
Many articles and resources to support LQBT people and their families and people who work with children and youth. Stand-alone resource. Very helpful for Christians

Our Bible App
An alternative to the non-affirming YouVersion that provides basics for everyone—could be helpful for anyone affirming and open

Queer Grace
A stand-alone reference guide. Helpful for new people who are worried they will sound dumb if they ask questions out loud

Additional Resources:
The Trevor Project: Resources for Supporting LGBTQ+ Youth

Brave Commons – Queer College Students Leading Bible Studies

The Liturgists Podcast LGBTQ

God and the Gay Christian by Matthew Vines

Podcast – Making Gay History

A Brief Guide to Ministry with LGBTQIA Youth by Cody J. Sanders (2017)

Biblical Case for LGBTQ Affirmation on Reformation Project

“I’m Open” — Clergy Resources

Buidling Inclusive Church Toolkit
Helping Your Congregation Become a Community that Openly Welcomes People of All Sexual Orientations and Gender Identities. From Reconciling Ministries Network. This resource takes a congregation through the steps to becoming a reconciling and welcoming congregation. It also provides timelines, sample statements, and more.

Enfleshed Liturgy Library
“Enfleshed was created out of a deep longing for spiritual resources that speak in our time to the things that matter most. With a commitment to spiritual and theological depth and the centering of marginalized experiences, conversations, and communities, enfleshed seeks to provide liturgy, devotionals, curriculum, preaching, training, and pastoral care that addresses honestly, tenderly, and directly, the beauty and pain of living enfleshed lives.” Liturgy Library contains a vast array of progressive liturgy.

Our Bible App
Mission: “Our Bible App supports the belief that spirituality is a spectrum and that faith is a journey. At its core, the holy texts were written to be inclusive of all of God’s creation, especially those on the margins. Our Bible App is bringing it back to the roots, celebrating the diversity of God’s creation with devotionals highlighting the inclusiveness of the text. Whether one goes to church to find spiritual clarity or to the sanctuary of nature, Our Bible App supports the belief that we are each trying to understand our place in this grand universe. Our goal is to untangle the binds that Christian colonizers have spread across the globe over hundreds of years. Through highlighting devotionals that are pro-LGBT, pro-women, and encourage interfaith inclusivity, we hope to provide a tool that is needed to create healthy prayer and meditation habits.” A progressive alternative to YouVersion Bible App. Contains Bible translations, devotions, and more.

Faithful and Inclusive
“Faithful and Inclusive allows you to gain an understanding of how United Methodists can be both obedient to God’s Word and fully welcoming to LGBTQ persons in the church.” This is a six session small group curriculum that contains videos and discussion guides.

Urban Abbey’s QueerFaith on Campus
Urban Abbey’s FAQ, which builds the case case for being a queer-affirming Methodist faith community. Provides conversational explanations through the lens of the Quadrilateral.

Biblical Case for LGBTQ Affirmation on Reformation Project
Ten brief points making the case for LGBTQ affirmation by Matthew Vines.

“I’m Open” — Laity Resources

Beyond XX and YY
Chart showing the scientific complexities of the gender spectrum.

When Sex and Gender Collide
Article about the TransYouth Project – resource for how we develop our gender identity; includes personal stories of discovering gender identity; research by Kristina Olson, professor of developmental psychology.

Healthline
Various resources here on nonbinary gender identity; first person essay on discovering nonbinary identity; in-depth guide to nonbinary identities; historical look at gender variance; resource for how to use gender-neutral pronouns; video for parents of children who are nonbinary.

Queer Theology
Tons of resources (articles, videos, podcasts) on being LGBTQ+ and Christian, how to read the Bible, sex and relationships, self care and coming out, making your church more inclusive, and activism.

Biblical Case for LGBTQ Affirmation on Reformation Project
Brief, surface, and accessible – a good “jumping off point”. 
This resource is a good place to start with people who want some bullet points on Biblical interpretation for LGBTQ+ inclusion

Brave Commons
This is a resource of sermon podcasts for engaging in Scripture with an inclusive lens and focus.

Our Bible App 
(alternative to non-affirming YouVersion) Every day use for an inclusive Bible App

Queer Grace
An online encyclopedia for LGBTQ+ and Christian Life; contains books, audio, video, online resources, personal stories, opportunities to connect to online communities and to ask questions, and a guide to finding a church

Blue Babies Pink
A 44-episode Southern coming out story through podcasts

Radical Love: An Introduction to Queer Theology by Patrick S. Cheng For individuals and small groups who are interested in theological study; may be helpful to be semi-knowledgable about various other types of theology before engaging this book

A Brief Guide to Ministry with LGBTQIA Youth by Cody J. Sanders (2017) Great resource for youth or youth group leaders and others working with youth, parents of LGBTQ+ persons; terminology

Holy Love: A Biblical Theology of Human Sexuality
From the perspective of a Wesleyan Covenant Association (WCA) member-turned affirming; helpful in ID-ing Biblical cases in an approachable and succinct way

God and the Gay Christian by Matthew Vines From the perspective of a gay cisgender male, goes into more detail than Holy Love refuting “traditional” interpretations of the 6 main Biblical verses used against LGBTQ+ persons.

“I’m Inclusive + Affirming” — Clergy Resources

GENERAL

Queer Grace: An Online Encyclopedia for LGBTQ and Christian Life
“Queer Grace is a growing resource-rich encyclopedia of existing and new content around LGBTQ life and the Christian faith.” Excellent collection of links to resources and content generated specifically for Queer Grace. Contributing authors are LGBTQ Christians from a variety of denominations.

Reconciling Ministries Network Toolkit for Becoming a Welcoming Congregation
Already a Reconciling Church? See especially Appendix 11: We’re Welcoming. Now What?

“For the Bible Tells Me So” Leader Discussion Guide
Study guide designed for use with movie “For the Bible Tells Me So.” Includes useful discussion guides on various ways we read the bible, engaging passages typically used to exclude LGBTQ folks, and understanding the cultural context of scripture.

CHILDREN & YOUTH

GLSEN Ready, Set, Respect Toolkit
Educational resource for teaching elementary-age children about affirming and respecting people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Includes modules on Name-Calling & Bullying, Family Diversity, and Gender Roles & Diversity;

A Brief Guide to Ministry with LGBTQIA Youth by Cody J. Sanders (2017)
A slim volume that helps affirming pastors and congregations provide skillful care to LGBTQ youth in their communities.

WORSHIP RESOURCES

Enfleshed Liturgy Library
A library of queer-inclusive and liberationist worship resource: calls to worship, wedding services, scripture remixes, communion liturgies, affirmations of faith, prayers of all sorts.

LGBTQ+ Affirming Hymns
“Songs for the Holy Other aims to provide congregations working to dismantle these walls with a toolbox of hymns by and for those who identify as members of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, nonbinary, queer, questioning, intersex, asexual, aromantic, two-spirit, and other sexual/gender minority (LGBTQIA2S+) community and their allies.” (.pdf freely available when you fill out the form on this page)

RMN Worship Resources
Resources for honoring and celebrating LGBTQ people in worship. Includes Service of Renaming, Communion Liturgy, Hymns about Social Justice, etc. To access, expand “Worship” section by clicking on the +.

“I’m Inclusive + Affirming” — Laity Resources

Queer Grace: An online encyclopedia for LGBTQ and Christian Life 
An online encyclopedia with vast online holdings including book lists, podcasts, videos, and links to online communities. Especially helpful for information-seekers and comparative learners.

Queer Theology
A curated list of resources on broad list of topics, arranged in one easy-to-read location, this website is a veritable bouquet of essays, videos, articles and podcasts. Especially helpful information-seekers.

Our Bible App
Created specifically as a progressive, pro-LGBTQ daily devotional app, to quote from their mission statement, “Through highlighting devotionals that are pro-LGBT, pro-women, and encourage interfaith inclusivity, we hope to provide a tool that is needed to create healthy prayer and meditation habits.” Especially helpful for those interested in a daily devotional and/or new and affirming experience of scripture.

A Brief Guide to Ministry with LGBTQIA Youth Published by John Knox Press, this book challenges church to go beyond a welcoming statement to truly considering how to support and include LGBTQI youth and prevent harm in the midst of good intentions. Especially helpful for youth group leaders and advocates.

Brave Commons With a Unicorn as their mascot, Brave Commons seeks to elevate the voices of LGBTQ+ students working within and beyond Christian universities in the United States. Website includes devotions and other worship elements. Especially helpful for college students and those on college campuses.

GLSEN – Resource for Meeting with Decision Makers Published by GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network), this six-page guide provides strategies and tips to help prepare for meetings with decision-makers. Especially helpful for teens and adults who seek to advocate.

GLSEN – Ready, Set, Respect Written for teachers and classroom leaders, this 68 page pdf provides multiple classroom lessons for grades K-2 and 3-5 as well as discussion for teachers around theory and practice of teaching inclusivity in the classroom. Topics are transferable to church settings and include bullying, gender roles, and family diversity. Especially helpful for elementary age teachers and advocates.